When you were about 5 or 6, almost guaranteed, someone asked you what you wanted to be.  Inevitably, having almost no knowledge of the world or of self, or what it meant to “be” you said whatever it was that was in your heart at the moment.  I was going to be a soap opera... Continue Reading →

Understatement alert: I'm don't love structure.  Like, at all.  I have lived within some strict professional confines in my life so I know I can be structured and calendared.  But legit, my natural state is not unlike that of an exploded suitcase at the end of a long trip.  Just kind of strewn about.  But unlike the disheveled traveler... Continue Reading →

Erin and I were on our way back from a business trip.  A road trip.  A very long road trip.  A very long road trip during which he drove, which meant zero stopping for snacks or meals.  Or bathroom breaks, so also no water.  That's not what this post is about at all, but I'm... Continue Reading →

Some of you have asked for advice on leaving a job.  I have so many thoughts!  But the thing that comes to mind today is a tiny piece of pretty technical advice.  It’s this: For the love of God, pack your office early.  My last day was a Friday.  I had exactly 145 days to... Continue Reading →

Were you near High Street yesterday afternoon?  If yes, did you see a brown woman in a miniskirt and a flowy crepe duster whiz past you on an electric scooter?  Was she cursing under her breath?  Was her wig askew (but makeup flawless)?  Was her jaw clenched and did she sometimes scream "look out" to... Continue Reading →

(Just so you know, I titled this post after writing it and now I'm craving fun size Snickers.  But its not about that.) I assume, unfairly maybe, that you know I quit my job this summer.  I promise I will spill the tea on exactly how that went down at some point soon.  Spoiler alert: ... Continue Reading →

God Bless the Midwest!  Though Midwesterners have a reputation for being somewhat reserved, I have found people here to be warm and open.  And maybe it is the wide open space, the big houses or possibly the endless winters, but for some reason people seem happy to welcome you into their cars, their homes and... Continue Reading →

I’m concerned, you guys.  I’ve been following a few popular business and life coaches.  I think they’re dope and really helpful in a lot of ways.  Few things fire me up more than listening to a great podcast with coffee as I plan my day.  But I’m noticing a potentially dangerous subtext in a lot... Continue Reading →

First post, y'all, so I'll keep it short. If you're like me you work every day to become better, to live the highest, grandest version of yourself.   My singular wish in writing this blog is that the stories, strategies and suggestions I share with you here help you along the way.  Or at least give... Continue Reading →